A Doula’s Letter to Cis-Dads, and Partners, All: We’re Space-Holders, Not Scene-Stealers!

“Asking your husband to be your sole guide through labor is like asking him to lead the way on a climb of Mt Everest. He may be smart and trustworthy, you may love him, but in the Himalayas you’d both be a lot better off with a Sherpa!” – Pam England. As doulas, we get …